TCF CREDO

ORIGIN OF TCF

WHEN A CHILD DIES

POEMS

MEMORIAL QUILT

NATIONAL CANDLELIGHT

STEERING COMMITTE AND CONTACT

SIBLINGS GROUP

COPING WITH GRIEF

HELPFUL LINKS


Welcome to the TCF New Mexico Chapter

The mission of The Compassionate Friends is to assist families in the positive resolution of grief following the death of a child and to provide information to help others be supportive.

The Compassionate Friends is a national nonprofit, self-help support organization which offers friendship and understanding to families who are grieving the death of a child of any age, from any cause.

There is no religious affiliation. There are no membership fees or dues, and all bereaved family members are welcome.

The secret of TCF's success is simple: As seasoned grievers reach out to the newly bereaved, energy that has been directed inward begins to flow outward and both are helped to heal.

To Learn more about The Compassionate Friends, visit the
TCF National Organization



Since early times, the butterfly has symbolized renewed life. The caterpillar signifies life here on earth; the cocoon, death, and the butterfly, the emergence of the dead into a new, beautiful and freer existence.

Frequently, the butterfly is seen with the word "Nika", which means victory. Elisabeth Kubler-Ross movingly tells of seeing butterflies drawn all over the walls of the children's dormitories in the World War II concentration camps.

Since Elisabeth believes in the innate intuitiveness of children, she concludes that these children knew their fate and were leaving us a message.

Many members of the Compassionate Friends embrace the butterfly as a symbol and a sign of hope to them that their children are living in another dimension with greater beauty and freedom which is a comforting thought to many.

Meetings of The Compassionate Friends

ALBUQUERQUE:
FIRST AND THIRD THURSDAYS OF EACH MONTH
Sandia Presbyterian Church
10704 Paseo Del Norte, NE From 7:00 pm - 8:45 pm.
Phone: 856-5040
(In the portable building between the large parking lots)
SANTA FE:
FIRST TUESDAY OF EACH MONTH.
The Hospice Center / PMS Home Care.
1400 Chama Ave. Santa Fe.
TCF Leader: Donald & Josephine (505) 988-2915


SOUTHWESTERN NEW MEXICO CHAPTER:
Fourth Monday of each month @ 6:30 p.m.
Home Furniture 207 S. Bullard St., Silver City
Contact: Laura Filkins 575-5878 (home) 575-2794 (cell)


EASTERN PLAINS CHAPTER:
Second Monday evening of each month at 7:00 pm
The Emmaus Center
815 2nd St., Clovis
Chapter Leader :
Gina Gutierrez H 505-769-3293 C 505-799-1881


The TCF Men's Chat Room:
We would like to urge any bereaved father that has a home computer with Internet access to try the Men’s Chat on Monday evenings at 10 p.m. ET The Men’s Chat room can be easily accessed via three Compassionate Friends Web sites; they all include chat schedules and complete instructions.
TFC NATIONAL WEBSITE:
TROY MI CHAPTER - Barry Gerenstein TCF, Babylon NY



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