| In the event you ever have the opportunity to see or meet your favorite
actor, in this case, Dougray Scott, and you are dying to run up to him for an autograph, don't.
First of all, having someone run after you is very frightening, and second of all,
it's just plain rude. So how do you approach a celebrity to ask for an autograph?
Etiquette here is very important. Remember to respect the celebrity's privacy, and
to treat them with dignity and respect. Here are some tips which will make the
encounter an enjoyable occasion for both of you.
1. Always allow the actor his privacy.
Never approach him while he is conducting personal business,
i.e., dinning in a restaurant, shopping (particularly if he is with
his family), at the movies or theater as part of the audience
(see #2 - Movie Premieres and Theater) or in a house of worship.
If you see him at any of these places, enjoy the memory of the
sighting and the fact you did not cause him any undue stress or
embarrassment.
2. Places where it's acceptable to approach your favorite actor.
a) Movie premieres - actually you can't "approach" him at a
movie
premiere, but you can stand in the designated
fan area and
wait for him to come over to shake hands and
sign autographs.
b) After Theater performances - depending on the theater and the
actor, you may be able to obtain an autograph
after the play.
Check with the box office the night of the
performance to see
if this will be possible.
c) Publicity Appearances - actors make different kinds of
appearances for public relations and publicity.
Normally these
are things such as charity events,
autograph-signing sessions,
film promotions, etc. Find out who the person
in charge of the
event is, and ask what the protocol will be for
obtaining an
autograph.
3. Tips on how to make a good impression if/when you meet your
favorite actor.
a) Very important - don't shout. It's human nature to shout
or talk
loudly when you are excited, but do your
best to refrain
yourself.
b) Be nice and genuine. Address him as Mr. Scott, not as
Dougray.
No matter how many times you've seen him
in films, you do not
personally know him, so do not be overly
familiar.
c) If you are requesting an autograph, have a pen (that works)
and
something that he can write upon.
Do not expect him to
produce these items for you. If
possible, make sure that the
pen will write properly on the paper or
photograph you wish him
to sign. Test it first.
d) Don't ask him to autograph a stack of paper or photographs.
Limit your request to one or two.
He will want to accommodate
others who are waiting, so don't
monopolize him nor put him in
an embarrassing situation.
4. Some final notes.
If you happen to be walking down the street (or wherever) and you
see your favorite actor, feel free to smile and say
"Hi", but do not
stop him. If he pauses to acknowledge your greeting, then
(and
you're going to have to read his body language very well!) it may
be acceptable to stop and say something simple and genuine, such
as, "I really enjoyed your performance in Ever After.
It made me
believe in romance all over again", or something along those
lines.
Avoid gushing comments such as, "My god, you were great in
Ever
After! I just loved the gypsy camp scene where you kiss
Drew!"
You get the idea. :-)
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