
MEMORIAL DAY Dedicated to Jack Jones 508th Airborne Infantry, Korea Died May 26th 2005 We will join you soon brother The old sergeant was walking across their compound when a member of the goon squad came running up. "Pappy! Have you got a minute? What are we going to do for Memorial Day? You got a party planned? What are we going------? The sergeant held up his hand for silence. "You know, you ask more questions than any kid I have ever seen. Do you want to know why the sky is blue, asshole? Go away and-------. No, I tell you what. You have the whole platoon met me in the field behind the compound on the 30th. I think you all need a lesson about what Memorial Day really means. Grumbling to himself the old sergeant walked off and the goon squad soldier was left wondering if they were in trouble. May 30th arrived and at about 1600hrs the whole platoon, plus many from other platoons were in the field behind the compound. Usually when pappy had something to say, if you were smart, you were there to listen. A lot of soldiers are alive today because they listened to pappy. Some of those that didn't, well, they aren't here. At 1630 on the dot the sergeant walked out onto the field and into the middle of the assembled men. Most were sitting on the ground, talking and smoking. But when pappy arrived it got very quite. "Ok ladies, listen up! Apparently most of you think Memorial Day is a time to party, have burgers and beers. Oh, you might know in the back of your mind what it really means but I'm going to impress something on you I want you to always remember. Memorial Day seems to have been degraded to a marketing strategy. "Memorial Day sale this and after Memorial Day sale that. Back yard barbecues and hotdogs. But you, of all people, should know exactly what it means and where it came from. "Three years after the Civil War ended, on May 5, 1868, the head of an organization of Union veterans — the Grand Army of the Republic (GAR) — established Decoration Day as a time for the nation to decorate the graves of the war dead with flowers. Maj. Gen. John A. Logan declared it should be May 30. It is believed the date was chosen because flowers would be in bloom all over the country. The first large observance was held that year at Arlington National Cemetery, across the Potomac River from Washington, D.C. The ceremonies centered around the mourning- draped veranda of the Arlington mansion, once the home of Gen. Robert E. Lee. Various Washington officials, including Gen. and Mrs. Ulysses S. Grant, presided over the ceremonies. After speeches, children from the Soldiers' and Sailors' Orphan Home and members of the GAR made their way through the cemetery, strewing flowers on both Union and Confederate graves, reciting prayers and singing hymns. Local springtime tributes to the Civil War dead already had been held in various places. One of the first occurred in Columbus, Miss., April 25, 1866, when a group of women visited a cemetery to decorate the graves of Confederate soldiers who had fallen in battle at Shiloh. Nearby were the graves of Union soldiers, neglected because they were the enemy. Disturbed at the sight of the bare graves, the women placed some of their flowers on those graves, as well. Today, cities in the North and the South claim to be the birthplace of Memorial Day in 1866. Both Macon and Columbus, Ga., claim the title, as well as Richmond, Va. The village of Boalsburg, Pa., claims it began there two years earlier. A stone in a Carbondale, Ill., cemetery carries the statement that the first Decoration Day ceremony took place there on April 29, 1866. Carbondale was the wartime home of Gen. Logan. Approximately 25 places have been named in connection with the origin of Memorial Day, many of them in the South where most of the war dead were buried. In 1966, Congress and President Lyndon Johnson declared Waterloo, N.Y., the "birthplace" of Memorial Day. There, a ceremony on May 5, 1866, honored local veterans who had fought in the Civil War. Businesses closed and residents flew flags at half-staff. Supporters of Waterloo's claim say earlier observances in other places were either informal, not community-wide or one-time events. By the end of the 19th century, Memorial Day ceremonies were being held on May 30 throughout the nation. State legislatures passed proclamations designating the day, and the Army and Navy adopted regulations for proper observance at their facilities. It was not until after World War I, however, that the day was expanded to honor those who have died in all American wars. In 1971, Memorial Day was declared a national holiday by an act of Congress, though it is still often called Decoration Day. It was then also placed on the last Monday in May, as were some other federal holidays. In recent years, the custom has grown in many families to decorate the graves of all departed loved ones. The origins of special services to honor those who die in war can be found in antiquity. The Athenian leader Pericles offered a tribute to the fallen heroes of the Peloponnesian War over 24 centuries ago that could be applied today to the 1.1 million Americans who have died in the nation's wars: "Not only are they commemorated by columns and inscriptions, but there dwells also an unwritten memorial of them, graven not on stone but in the hearts of men." To ensure the sacrifices of America 's fallen heroes are never forgotten, in December 2000, the U.S. Congress passed and the president signed into law "The National Moment of Remembrance Act," P.L. 106-579, creating the White House Commission on the National Moment of Remembrance. The commission's charter is to "encourage the people of the United States to give something back to their country, which provides them so much freedom and opportunity" by encouraging and coordinating commemorations in the United States of Memorial Day and the National Moment of Remembrance. The National Moment of Remembrance encourages all Americans to pause wherever they are at 3 p.m. local time on Memorial Day for a minute of silence to remember and honor those who have died in service to the nation. As Moment of Remembrance founder Carmella LaSpada states: "It's a way we can all help put the memorial back in Memorial Day." (1) "So. Now do all you numb nuts understand the real meaning of Memorial Day? Always remember that over 1 million Americans have given their lives in the fight for freedom. They and all veterans will always be remembered and so will you. All sat in rapt attention as the old sergeant finished his speech. At just about that time a truck rolled onto the field. It contained a barbecue grill and lots of hamburgers and hotdogs. As the old sergeant was walking away he turned and said, "Well now that I know you all are educated, there is no reason not to have a little fun. © Steve Newton The Old Sergeant Series is fictional (1) A very special thank you to the Veterans Administration
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He Only Takes the Best:
God saw that he was getting tired and a cure was not to be
So he put his arms around him and whispered "Come with me"
With Tear filled eyes we watched him, suffer and fade away
Althrough we loved him deeply, we could not make him stay.
A golden heart stopped beating, hard working hands put to rest.
God broke our hearts to prove to use, that he only takes the Best.
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