The meaning of wedding ceremony
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The
wedding is when a man and women get married. They
perform religious ceremony for their ancestors and
they bear children so the family tree will continue.
The ancestors said that the wedding is a beginning
of human virtue and a origin of great fortune. In
human's life the wedding is an important thing and
also has an important significance.
There are four
meanings in a marriage. |

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The
first meaning is the man and woman have
a physical relation. When human reach maturity
they begin to have a sexual desire as much
as they eat, wear clothing and sleep. They
should not have a sleep with anyone else
but their partner. For that reason the monogamy
has been affected between the man and woman.
Secondly,
they have a platonic relationship of their
own. First of all they respect each other
with love. They should endure each other
in all of sufferings and make us a space
of their own.
Thirdly,
they have a common social life which is
called a household. The household of the
newly wed couple is the beginning of their
own background in social community. They
bear children and bring them up in a comfortable
environment. Therefor there are a lot of
responsibilities in a marriage.
Finally,
the wedding follows one organization. The
organization is a synthetical rule like
a custom, a morality, a law and so on. The
rule is an official law and principle which
guides our behaviour and thought to
achieve standardized goals.
The
wedding is not only happiness but a benediction
also.  |