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You met a great guy, felt an amazing connection, went out on a few dates then you felt safe about sleeping with him.

The sex was great. You went home with stars perma-fixed in your eyes.

You were expecting him to call but your man went missing.

He hasn't called. It's been weeks.

You're now thrown into a frenzy trying to figure out why he pulled away because you followed your feelings into bed with him and he's no where to be found.

You're thinking that all men are jerks, that he's a loser, and that you'll never end up doing this to yourself again.

But you did and now you have another guy you thought was better than ice creme now on your most-hated-loser-you-make-me-sick list.

Are all the men you slept with losers or are you making stupid choices with your body?

The missing link is that you don't believe in making men wait because you're free with your body and apparently your body and soul does not think it can give things away for free or you wouldn't be this pissed off.

You're leading your body into places where it really doesn't want to go. Your body knows better. It knows that it is attached to something deeper called your soul and that both aren't separate for a woman.

When you continually give sex to a man just because you're hot on fire for him and want him to really want you, you'll wake up wondering whether he really wants you.

Sex for a man can be the same feeling or high you get off of buying that cute outfit you've always wanted.

You wear it once, then it has a way of making itself to the closet where it doesn't come out. After a while you forget about it and go on to the next cute outfit you have to have.

Your mistake is that you risked sleeping with your man before knowing that he would offer you the security of a true commitment. He's not wired the way you are.

When you had sex, you felt a closer bond because your female brain is wired that way. When your man had sex, he wanted his freedom afterwards. He had to conquer something in order to find rest. Ouch!

That hurts.

And the reason he went lickety-split is because his male brain didn't have a chance to have a deeper more meaningful emotional connection with you. You had all the power before you slept with him.

But there's a way to learn from your mistake. The next time you meet Mr. Potential and his Mr. Happy hints at wanting to take it to the next level, you can keep your power by becoming a confident secure woman who'll make him burn like white heat.

Nicole Gayle is the author of the e-book, I'm Not That Kind of Woman, to help you attract quality men who deserves you and date smart. Create an enlightened level of self respect that drives men wild and leave them wanting more. Get instant download plus the free song at http://www.notthatkindofwoman.com

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