Yo-Ho...there!!!Its-Anita on this side...!!!Nice to
have "YOU" in here...Welcome to my world...!!!
 
   
 
  Life's - journey...!!!<

Some people come into our lives and quickly go. 

Some people move our souls to dance.

They awaken us to new understanding with the passing whisper of their wisdom.

Some people make the sky more beautiful to gaze upon. 

They stay in our lives for awhile, leave footprints in our hearts, and We are never, ever the same. 

Its true...very true!!!



Oh...!yes...People...

People are often unreasonable, illogical,and self-centered; 

forgive them anyway. 

If you are kind, People may accuse you of selfish,ulterior motives;

be kind anyway. 

If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies; 

Succeed anyway. 

If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you; 

be honest and frank anyway.

What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight;

Build anyway. 

If you find serenity and happiness, there may be jealousy; 

be happy anyway. 

The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow; 

Do good anyway. 

Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough; 

Give the world the best you have got anyway. 

you see, in the final analysis, it is between you and the greatest power...

It was never between you and them...

anyway!! 



Hey-there!!!...My wishes...

I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright.

I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun more.

I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive.

I wish you enough pain so that the smallest joys in life appear much bigger.

I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting.

I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess.

I wish enough "Hello's" to get you through the final "Good-bye."

Tears fill my eyes as "U" go away...

My friend, I wish you enough!!!



Well folks - please understand that...

It is nice to be important but it is more important to be nice.

What can give us more joy than a friend can ?

Even more...is there something we need more?

True blue friends….make you feel warm;

they are automatically on the same wave length;

they feel genuinely sorry and come to your assistance when you are in trouble;

you can speak freely to them,

you do not have to be on guard;

they really listen;

they care about what you are doing…

the list could go on and on…

The most I can do for a friend is simply to be his friend.

I have no wealth to bestow on
him...!!!

If he knows that I am happy in loving him,

he will want no other reward.

Is not friendship divine in this?



Did you know...
that...??????

Courtesy is a jewel that is quite out of fashion these days. 

Etiquette is one facet Of man's behavior.

People say that manners maketh a man and good manners come out of good breeding.

Etiquette is learnt at a very young age because as we know what is not bent at five, cannot be bent at fifty.

Good manners are the mark Of a gentleman and a real gentleman always tries to consider other people's feelings.

Good manners are necessary for success in life.

Always respect God, your parents, relatives, teachers and your friends and always remember that :

Thanks is such a little word...

No bigger than a minute...

However, there is a world of meaning...

And appreciation in it...!

And also, remember that...

Hearts like doors...

will Open with ease...

To very, very little keys...

And do not forget that...

Two of them are...

THANK YOU...

AND...

IF YOU PLEASE...!!!


Thankful...!!!
Oh...Yes...!!!...yes...
 

Every day Please......be thankful for what you have and who you are.......................

Even though I clutch my blanket and growl when the alarm rings,

I give thanks that I can hear.
There are many who are deaf.
 
 

Even though I keep my eyes closed against the morning light
as long as possible,

I give thanks that I can see.
Many are blind.
 
 

Even though I huddle in my bed and put off rising,

I give thanks that I have the strength to rise.

There are many who are bedridden.
 
 

Even though the first hour of my day is hectic,

when socks are lost,

toast is burned and tempers are short,

my children are so loud,

I give thanks for my family.

There are many who are lonely.
 
 

Even though our breakfast table never looks like the pictures in magazines,

and the menu is at times unbalanced,

I give thanks for the food we have.

There are many who are hungry.
 
 

Even though the routine of my job sometimes is monotonous,

and sometimes is too hectic,

I give thanks for the opportunity to work.

There are many who have no jobs.
 
 

Even though I grumble and bemoan my fate from day to day,

and wish my circumstances were not so modest,

I give thanks......for life...

for the-LIFE THAT I HAVE...

......AND I AM-TRULY BLESSED!!!


Life the way it is...

Life is a succession of lessons......

which must be lived to be understood....



Memories...

......they fade but - they never die...!!!



Life...

...is no brief candle to me.  It is a sort of splendid torch which I have gotten hold of for the moment, and I want to make it burn-as brightly as possible before handing it on to future generations.



Im-Possible...

Nothing is Impossible, even the word says I'M POSSIBLE.



Risk it-its worth it...

To keep your failure rate to a minimum, avoid taking risks!!!

If you never stretch beyond your reach...or search beyond your view,most of the pain and embarrassment that accompany failure will pass you on by...!!!

...With them however, go the mystery,the excitement...
the glorious contentment of doing and being more than you thought possible...!!!

Risk appearing foolish...

You'll be lighter in heart and filled with more laughter.

Risk a challenge to your perceptions...

You'll be broader in mind and more understanding of others.

Risk a broken heart...

You'll be a deeper well of emotions and filled with more compassion.

Risk rejection...

You'll stop depending on others to reinforce your worth and stand strong in your own worthiness.

Risk saying no...

You'll give quality instead of quantity...
and fill your charitable hours with more productivity.

Risk distant dreams...

You'll find out if you do, or you don't, have the guts and determination to see them through.

Risk failure...

You'll realize the value of its teachings and overcome its immobilizing fear.

In exchange for taking risks,
you might face failure,
or you might face success...
but then you will surely find extra-ordinary facets of yourself!!!

Spread your wings...
Test your limits...
Walk boldly into the horizons that call your name...

Living in love and loving life...!!!



Seven Wonders of the World...

...I think the Seven Wonders of the World
are:

1. to touch

2. to taste

3. to see 

4. to hear

5. to feel

6. to laugh

7. and to love...!!!



...Measure...!!!

Nobody has ever measured,
how much a heart can hold.



...Worth...!!!

Too often we don't realize
what we have until it is gone;
Too often we wait too late to say
"I'm sorry - I was wrong."

Sometimes it seems we hurt the ones
we hold dearest to our hearts;
And we allow foolish things
to tear our lives apart.

Far too many times we let
unimportant things into our minds;
And then it's usually too late
to see what made us blind.

So be sure that you let people know
how much they mean to you;
Take that time to say the words
before your time is through.

Be sure that you appreciate everything 
you've got and be thankful for the
little things in life that mean a lot.



Love...!!!

Love is the one treasure that multiplies by division...

It is the one gift that grows bigger the more you take from it... 

It is the one business in which it pays to be an absolute spendthrift...

You can give it away, throw
it away, empty your pockets, shake the basket, turn the glass upside down...

and tomorrow you 
will have more than ever.



Tug of War

Life can seem ungrateful ~ and not always kind.

Life can pull at your heartstrings ~ and play with your mind.

Life can be blissful ~ and happy and free.

Life can put beauty ~ in the things that you see.

Life can place challenges ~ right at your feet.

Life can make good ~ of the hardships that we meet.

Life can overwhelm you ~ and make your head spin.

Life can reward those ~ determined to win.

Life can be hurtful ~ and not always fair.

Life can surround you ~ with people who care.

Life clearly does offer ~ its ups and its downs.

Life's days can bring you ~ both smiles and frowns.

Life teaches us to take ~ the good with the bad.

Life is a mixture ~ of happy and sad.

So.....

Take the life that you have ~ and give it your best.

Think positive, be happy ~ let God do the rest.

Take the challenges ~ that life has laid at your feet.

Take pride and be thankful ~ for each one you meet.

To yourself give forgiveness ~ if you stumble and fall.T

ake each day that is dealt you ~ and give it your all.

Take the love that you're given ~ and return it with care.

Have faith that when needed ~ it will always be there.

Take time to find the beauty ~ in the things that you see.

Take life's simple pleasures ~ let them set your heart free.

The idea here is simply ~ to even the score.

As you are met and faced with ~ Life's Tug Of War.



Wonder why!!!   
 

 I wonder why it is we are not all kinder to each other...

How much the world needs it! 

and-how easily it is done!


Money...

It can buy a House

But not a Home...

It can buy a Bed

but not Sleep...

It can buy a Clock

But not Time...

It can buy you a Book

But not Knowledge...

It can buy you a Position

But not Respect...

It can buy you Medicine

But not Health...

It can buy you Blood

But not Life...

So you see money isn't everything
...

And it often causes pain and suffering...

I tell you this because I am your Friend...

and as your Friend...

I want to take away your pain and suffering...

So send me all your money...

and I will suffer for you!!!

Cash only please...hahahahahaha!



 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

 

       
     
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      Hey...!!!Promises...my friends...

    Though most of us tell our friends that we would be 

     best  friends forever...

     ...How often does that last???

     you might be best friends for one year...

     pretty good friends the next year...

     dont talk that often the next year...

     and dont want to talk at all the year after that...!!!

     ...but then I just wanted to let you know that even if I 

     never-ever talk to you again in my life...my friend...

     you are very special to me in my life...

     because...you have made a very great differance to 

     my life...

     and I really and truly adore you with all my heart...

     and will cherish you always...till the end of my days...

     ..and after...!!!



  ...Sad...

    In life we often change:

    jobs...friends...spouses...Instead of...ourselves!!!



  ...A tribute to all my friends...

    Friendship:

    isnt how you forget...

    but how you forgive...

    its not about how you listen...

    but how you understand...

    its not about how you see...

    but how you feel...

    its not about how you let go...

    but how you hold on...!!!



    My dearest...folks!!!

    ...Be careful about whom you give your heart to...

    ...because when you give your heart to someone...

    ...you are not only giving that person the right to love 

    you...

    ...but also the power to hurt you...

    ...remember this......always!!!



   Hey...!!!...Believe me...

    Yesterday is the past...

    tomorrow is the future...

    today is a gift...

     thats why we call it the - " PRESENT " .



   Live and let live...

   Lets live for today and make it the best...because...

   Yesterday  is a dream,

    Tomorrow is a vision,

    today well lived makes all of  yesterday's  dream's 

     cherished and

     full of happiness and fulfillment ,

    and all the -morrows  vision's of hope and faith!!



  Its in you...

    No one can make you feel inferior without your consent....!!! 



    Weakness...

     Our greatest weakness lies in giving up...

     The most certain way to succeed is to 

     always try - just one more time...!!!



   Happiness...

     If you want happiness for an hour-take a nap.

     If you want happiness for a day-go fishing.

     If you want happiness for a month-get married.

     If you want happiness for a year-inherit a fortune.

     If you want happiness for a lifetime-help others.



    Soul search...

    A true relationship knows of but one great thing:

    to give of one´s self boundlessly in order to find

    one´s self richer, deeper, better.



  Seasons of Love...???

    Love is the only flower that grows and blossoms

    Without the aid of the seasons.



  Forgiveness...!!!

    Why is it hard to forgive others? 

    Usually because we believe that they are 90% to blame 

     for whatever the problem, 

     that I am not as bad as they are.......... 

     So I start to carry the load of other people's actions. 

     If my ego is too hurt, 

     I will have the sense of correction, of justice: 

     'I know I am right', 'That is not fair'. 

     But if I start to forgive from the heart, 

     ......sincerely, 

     then this kind of feeling and attitude begins to dissolve. 

     I remain humble and this forgiveness will bring me 

     closer to others. 

    Then I do not carry regrets or anger, 

     I just let go and remain light !!!



  Difference between love and like...
 

   In front of the person you love your heart beats faster...

    but in front of the person you like you get happy...
 

   in front of the person you love winter seems like      spring...

    but in front of the person you like winter is just 
    beautiful...!!!
 

    if  you look into the eyes of the one you love you blush...

    but if you look into the eyes of the one you like you
    smile...
 

    in front of the person you love you cannot say everything...

    but in front of the person you like you can say 
    everything...
 

   in front of the person you love you tend to be shy...

   but in front of the person you like you can show your 
   own self...
 

   the person you love comes to your mind every two 
   minutes...

   but the person you like is remembered too often...
 

   you can't look straight into the eyes of the one you love...

   but you can always smile into the eyes of the one you 
   like...
 

   when the one you love is crying , you cry with him/her...

   but when the one you like is crying you just end up... 
   comforting...
 

    the one you love is far but yet too close...

    but the one you like is close yet too far...
 
 

    the feeling of love starts from the eyes...

    and the feeling of like starts from the ears...
 

    so when you stop liking a person you used to like 
    all you need to do is  to cover your ears !!
 

     but if you try to close your eyes...to the one you love...

    ...love turns into a drop of tear......and...

    ...remains in your heart for ever and ever !!!!!! 



    I Found A Friend In You...

    Never go away...I want you to stay.

    And always be my friend...from now until the end.

    For your friendship I could fight...from day until night.

    Because in you I see a reflection of me...

    And its absolutely true...I've found a friend in you!!!



  Friendship...

   cheers lika a sun-beam...

   charms like a great story...

   inspires like a brave leader...

   binds like a golden chain guides like a heavenly vision......


   Hey...

   we are not primarily here on this earth to...

   see through one another...but...

   to see one another through...!!!



The One in the Glass...

When you get what you want in your struggle for self,
And the world makes you great  for a day;
Just go to a mirror and look at yourself,
And see what the one has to say...

For it isn’t your father,mother,husband or wife,
Whose judgement upon-you must pan;
The one whose verdict counts most in your life,
Is the one staring back from the glass...!!!

Some people may think you’re a straight shooting chum,
And call you a wonderful one;
But if the one in the glass says you’re only a bum,
and then...If you can’t look this one straight in the eye...

this one's-the one that you have to please, never mind all the rest,
For this one’s with you clean upto the end;

And you would’ve passed your most dangerous, difficult test,
...If the one in the glass is your friend.

You may fool the whole world, down the pathway of yours,
and get pats on the back as you pass;

But your final reward will be heartaches and tears,
If you have cheated the one in the glass...!!!

Please be honest to yourself!!!



 Celebrate...

 Celebrate your successes, your growth, your accomplishments...
 Celebrate you and who you are...

 For too long you might have been too hard on yourself...
 Others might have spilled their negative energy

their attitudes, beliefs, pain--on you...
 It has nothing to do with you!!!

All along, you have been a gift to yourself and to the Universe.
 Beautiful, a delight, a joy...

You do not have to try harder, to be better, to be perfect,
 or to be anything that you are not.!!!

Your beauty is in you, just as you are each moment...

 Celebrate that...!!!

 When you have success, when you accomplish something, enjoy it.!!!
 Pause, reflect, rejoice...!!!

Too long you might have listened to admonitions
 not to feel good about what you have done,
 lest you travel the downward road to arrogance...!!!

 Celebration is a high form of praise,to enjoy...
 and celebrate the good doesn't mean it will be taken away from  you...
 To celebrate is to delight in the gift, to show gratitude...!!!

 Celebrate your relationships!!!

 Celebrate the lessons from the past...
 and the love and warmth that is there today...
 Enjoy the beauty of others and their connection to you...

 Celebrate all that is in your life...

 Celebrate all that is good...

 Celebrate you!!!



My dearest friends...

                                       To My Friends Who Are... SINGLE!!!

Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the more it eludes you. But if you just let it fly, it will come to you
 when you least expect it. Love can make you happy but often it hurts, but love's only special when you give it to someone who is really worth it. So take your time and choose the best.

                               To My Friends Who Are... NOT SO SINGLE!!!

Love isn't about becoming somebody else's "perfect person." It's about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.

                            To My Friends Who Are... PLAYBOY/GIRL TYPE!!!

Never say "I love you" if you don't care. Never talk about feelings if they aren't there. Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart. Never look in the eye when all you do is lie. The cruellest thing a guy can do to a girl is to let her fall in love when he doesn't intend to catch her fall and it works both ways...

                              To My Friends Who Are... MARRIED!!!

Love is not about "it's your fault", but "I'm sorry." Not "where are you", but "I'm right here." Not "how could you", but "I understand." Not "I wish you were", but "I'm thankful you are."

                                  To My Friends Who Are... ENGAGED!!!

The true measure of compatibility is not the years spent together but how good you are for each other.

                               To My Friends Who Are... HEARTBROKEN!!!

Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut as deep as you allow them to go. The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them.

                                    To My Friends Who Are... NAIVE!!!

How to be in love: Fall but don't stumble, be consistent but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, and get hurt but never keep the pain.

                                To My Friends Who Are... POSSESSIVE!!!

It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else but it's more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.

                            To My Friends Who Are... AFRAID TO CONFESS!!!

Love hurts when you break up with someone. It hurts even more when someone breaks up with you. But love hurts the most when the person you love has no idea how you feel.

                             To My Friends Who Are... STILL HOLDING ON!!!

A sad thing about life is when you meet someone and fall in love, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and that you have wasted years on someone who wasn't worth it. If he isn't worth it now he's not going to be worth it a year or 10 years from now. Let go...

                                         TO ALL MY FRIENDS...

My wish for you is a man/women whose love is honest, strong, mature, never-changing, uplifting, protective,encouraging, rewarding and unselfish.



Your beautiful smile...!!!

Life is a mixture of sunshine and rain...
Laughter and pleasure, teardrops and pain...
All days can't be bright, but it's certainly true...
There was never a cloud the sun didn't shine through...

So just keep on smiling whatever betide you...
Secure in the knowledge God is always beside you...
And you'll find when you smile your day will be brighter...
And all of your burdens will seem so much lighter...

For each time you smile you will find it is true...
Somebody, somewhere will smile back at you...
And nothing on earth can make life more worthwhile...
Than the sunshine and warmth of a beautiful smile...



Listen to your heart...

Listen to your heart those things you most desire in life are always surrounding you, close at hand... 

They are there, ready for you to reach out and touch them, ready for you to joyfully live them...

But you cannot touch them with your hands alone,nor with your mind alone...

You must also reach for them with your heart...

Listen to your heart and pay heed to what it has to tell you...

You know what it feels like to do what is right, and you know the feeling of doing what is wrong...

Choose to do what is right...

Your heart knows that...what is right and is best for you...

You are most effective when you work toward the values that are truly
important to you...

You won't get very far by working against them... 

Your thoughts and actions matter very much, and yet they are driven by
something even deeper...

Every thought, every action is undertaken by the person you truly are...
You are smart and capable, flexible and intelligent...

Yet you are not just a machine because you are a person who can love and feel and hope and know joy...

Keep your efforts in harmony with what you feel in your heart, and the
results will be truly magnificent...


BE POSITIVE...

A positive outlook is a cherished possession....

Having one, doesn't mean-life is all good'...

It isn't...!!!

Challenges and struggles are part of being alive...of doing and thinking and trying and dreaming and loving...

Positive living-keeps hope alive when the horizon is bleak...

You have the strength to survive dismal days,knowing better days 
are ahead...

Change isn't as scary, knowing a bend in the road isn't the end of 
the road...!!!

A negative outlook is a powerful  possession...having one, means life is 'all bad'... 

When the sun breaks through and shines joy into your life, you
don't see it... 

You're too busy polishing your rain-gear, getting ready for the next storm...

Negative living is a running commentary of every ache,every pain, every bump in the road, every cloud in the sky...

The fruit of a good day is never picked and enjoyed...

It withers on the vine while you wait for the next shoe to drop, the 
next trouble train to unload its cargo...

Outlook, positive or negative, is a possession of choice...!!!

It is a reality of your own choosing...It affects the essence,the message,
the meaning of your life...

You either keep a running tally of your misfortunes or your blessings.



 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

 

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