Customs Associated With
            Valentine's Day

            Valentine's Day is a combination of various rituals, myths, beliefs as well as superstitions, which have >been handed down from one generation to the next.     It combines ancient pagan rituals andChristian beliefs into one day.  Although it is more commercialised today with an emphasis onexchanging or receiving gifts, it still remains a day for lovers and friends.  It is a day when we want tospend time with our mates and friends, but also lets take time  to remember the love that Saint Valentine; Patron of Valentine's Day had for our Lord Jesus Christ.

            Early Valentine Customs

            Valentine's Day can also be traced back to the ancient Roman festival of Lupercalia, which was held on the 15th to ensure protection from wolves.  When the Romans conquered Britain in 43 A.D., the British adopted many of the Roman festivals.  Lupercalia is linked with Valentine's Day because of the date and connection to fertility.

            During the Middle Ages in both France and England, it is said that half way through the month of February, which is the 14th, was the time when birds began to pair.     This is the reason why that day was specially sanctified for lovers.  It was also looked upon as an occasion for writing love letter and sending lovers' tokens.      French and English literature of the 14th and 15th century contain references to this practice.  The earliest can be found in the 34th and 35th "Ballads" of the poet, John Gower.  There are also examples written by Lydgate and Clauvowe.

            Some historians trace the sending of verses on Valentine's Day back to as early as the 1400's in England.  They attribute this to a Frenchman by the name of Charles, Duke of Orleans who wascaptured by the British during the Battle of Agincourt in 1415.  While imprisoned, he sent his wife a rhymed love letter on Valentine's Day, from his cell.

            During the 1700's, unmarried women supposedly pinned five bay leaves to their pillow on Valentine's Eve.  One was pinned in the centre with the other four in each corner.  It is said that by doing this they would see their future husband in their dreams.

            Modern Day Customs

            In Canada, the United States and most Western countries, Valentine's Day is celebrated on February 14th.  On this day sending valentines to their loved one, family members and friends is still the most popular custom.  Valentines come in a variety of styles ranging from humorous to the romantic verses.      Another popular custom is that of giving chocolates which usually comes in a fancy decorated heart shaped box, flowers, jewellery or other gift to friends and loved ones. Teachers of elementary students will often hold  Valentine Parties where the children exchange cards with their friends and classmates.  Often the classroom is decorated with paper hearts and so forth which the children have previously made.  Many secondary or high schools will hold a special Valentine's Day dance.

            Many European countries have their own special rituals, which are associated with Valentine's Day.In Britain children receive gifts of candy, fruit or money.  They also have special songs, which are reserved for Valentine's Day.  Valentine buns made with caraway seeds, plums, or raisins are also popular in parts of England.

            In Denmark, it is customary to send pressed white flowers called snowdrops to their friends.  The men also send a valentine, which is called a gaekkebrev, which means a joking or fun letter.  The sender writes a rhyme but instead of signing his name.  He uses dots for each letter in his name.  At Easter, woman who correctly guessed the name of the sender  receives an Easter egg from that person.


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